The days rolls on,days will change to months and months will be changed o years.Every single second a human,breath in and breath out by himself alone.A fetus will grow in a mother's womb into a stage of birth as a baby.For the nine months it has to survive depending on itself alone without the dependence on anyone in the world.Some says that a baby cries after the delivery of a mother,for leaving its comfort zone and entering a world which is full of cruelty.
Have you ever wondered how self-depending and how independent were you at infant stage itself,even when you had no ideas on who you are?Why you are here and what the future holds for you?All that you had in your mind was how pleasantful that particular present moment was.It kept you alive,it kept you fulfilled,it kept you much blissful.The saddest part of the world is we tend to never appreciate our own companionship after some stages of our life.
This world is full of uniqueness.Every one living in this world experiences the love,bliss,sadness,happiness,anger and pain.Every little thing changes and it never remains the same even our mind and our feelings.The changes of ourselves can be acceptable but the changes of the others is what we are so concerned of.It can either make us or break us.
You are a very magnificent creature,you are not just a dust or the flow of the air,you are a very unique creature who has all the abilities to conquer your mind and your feelings.The life brings us the different complexions,dimensions and all sort of stages,but the basic remains the same.Have you noticed that when you start a subject you learn the basic of it but as you are learning the advance level of it you learn it more in detail but still without the proper fundamental all your learning may collapse.The same thing applies to your life as well.
A mother have never had any physical contact with a baby when it was carried in her womb,but it has still managed to feed itself,comfort itself,entertains itself and just to sum it up,it lived it's life thinking of how happy it can be being alone,the companion of yourself is the most worthful and the ever needed element in your life.There was a statement by an Indian spiritual leader Sadhguru which is "if you are alone and you are feeling bored,it means you are a bad companion for yourself.
Before this world welcomes you,you have started to first love yourself,the love which came from you was then transmitted to all the other energies surrounded by you.Can you imagine how much of power you had.The all mighty Lord,has never made you in the form of gaining the happiness and the love from the others.He made you as a source of love and happiness who gives it to everyone and receives it in abundance.
The perfect match,this is just a fantasy of many people out there,who are waiting for their charming prince or a princess who gives them all the love and someone who stands after them for a better living of theirs.Some even assume that only marrying a millionaire will make your life flourishing.If this is you,you have failed of losing your identity,your power,your worth,your individuality an your most important dignity.You have failed for the purpose of achieving why the supreme power has created you for.
The human is a very complicating form of energy.It knows on how to achieve everything in its life,for example,in order for you to get a prestigious job,you must first be qualified,if you want to win in a race you must first train yourself to what you are heading to.In order for you to receive the love,you must first love yourself too.The basic of everything is the same,the formula remains the same forever but the only thing which never remains is the mind of a human which changes at times and drops its own self-assurance
The very often myth that was created by those days people a perfect match is someone who understands you,loves you more than you love yourself,someone who advices and leads you,someone who is more qualified than you.How many who have succeeded in the marriage life by getting into the relationship with the qualities of all those?The best example can be seen in the rates of divorce every single year. Didn't they fall in love earlier,or they have never had the understanding or the perfect matches we all are looking for.The only one thing which was lack in them could be not having the strong faith,love,hope,understanding and the best of believing in themselves alone,more than they had on the others.
The only secret of getting a perfect match is firstly finding for the methods of being as the perfect match for yourself alone.You are the best match who has never failed to understand and comfort you more than anyone else in this world.The love which you are receiving is based on what you have given or transmitted to them.How unique your capabilities are the best thing which can describe on how strong you are in bringing up yourself ,never by marrying a millionaire,neither by having a well-settled woman.
Heart-broken,love failure happens when you cannot mend your heart with the same love that you losed.The love that is gone is never completed,it is what you cannot hold on to as well.We are the loves and you have received the love based on what you transmitted to them earlier,why cannot you use the same love within you to repair the broken patches,fuel yourself with some confidence and the strong faith and rise up even stronger.
"Match",the word itself stands in a way that has only its own identity and power.What I am trying to explain so far is never on how to neglect a life partner or a perfect match and only concern on yourself alone.Live your life as you are the only sole writer of your destiny.Be with whom brings you the happiness and makes you to fully understand on how valuable you are on this earth.He or she describes your personality. You are choosing him or her to fulfill yourself,more than theirs.This can be kind of selfish but the happiness of seeing your life partner In their favouritism what makes you happier too.
The world will bow for you,the wind will blow towards you,the star will wink at you,the love will find its path towards you and the match will match to you,only if you are the best in living your life as for you first.People will say that do not have ego in your life it may destroy you,I will say that do have it not in a way that can destroy you in a way that can make you up,holds you strong and in a way that can draw your perfect match towards you.It comes to you when you are stop looking for it,this is the law of the nature.Live as there is no one can ever make you sad,or push you into sorrows.Hold the pen of your destiny much stronger,when you pass it to the other one,your better life has no assurance.
Life has choices and living is your choice,when every choice is made by you alone ,keep the column of marriage and a perfect match as an option too.You still breath without it,you still rise without it and you still conquer yourself without it too.We go for shopping,find our favourite things some thing may be nicer and much worthy but are we buying them all at once,never,we select on what is the best one for us,what can fit for you perfectly,what can comfort you always,what is very suitable for your usage.The same thing applies to finding your life partner,or your perfect match too.You are getting on only what is comforting and drawing the positivities towards you.
We tend to get attracted to some beautiful things and our capabilities of getting them will be also more than enough but have you noticed that we still tend to not buy them at first?Maybe we may want to look on all the other items first and then come back to the same one if its needed,but we humans tend to not follow the same procedures when it comes to finding our pairs as well.
You are attached to someone with the thought that he or she is the only right person for you,have you came across of all the humans all around the world when there is a big "NO" for that,you are then left from the basic of finding the right one for you.Life has so many branches.Each and everyone in your life describes you,who is the sole personality of finding and bringing on every perfection that captures them.
Live as a sole survive,you have left the shopping mall when nothing can be favourable for your preferences,why cannot you do the same when it comes to finding your life partner as well.We all are the writers,we are the creators that has the only right of designing your future.If a woman says that I want to get richer or if she says I will be rich if I marry him,that describes on how the power in you has worked,which had either helped to depend on yourself or to depend on the man in the future who might be there to make you richer but never to match your personality.
Walk,breath look at the nature,what if there is only one person who lives in this entire world,who is you alone,everything belongs to you,every path has only your footsteps,what can drop your feelings,what can bring you tears,what can make you unhappy.Who will be your perfect match is whom has the best understanding,love,care and the comfort that you are looking for.Perhaps at that moment it can be only you alone.
The moment of being the sole surviver may bring you tremendous of freedom,privacy and happiness,but why does it fail when you are surrounded by the other humans around you?Are you bounded by them or the usual talks of people,putting you as the title of their conversation?What holds you higher is only your thoughts never their perception about you.
You entered the universe as a sole surviver with or without a pair you will still live your life as the best creature of the Lord.You still have to live even if there is a partner who comforts you,gives you the best,what remains in you then is just yourself alone.Your partner can only help you by healing you with the medicine,the process of healing has to be done by you alone.If your partner leaves you,what has left then to move forward is your sole power,which only listens to your sayings.The world has created you as the perfect match for yourself,from the first day you have started to write you life's story.
"Keep everything that makes you and throw whatever that breaks you",never listen to the society which puts you in the circumstances where you can never move out of it then.Listen to your soul,what feeds your soul is only your thoughts,that draws the perfections of what Is the perfect one for yourself.
Love is the secondary item which comes after yours,life is the road that is fulfilled with the rubbish and the flowers that stinks and has fragrance at the same time.We live our life with our own signature,that is why you are always left with your own opinions and choices.
Go on in your life,get to know many but before you make the right choice for a perfect match,do keep in your mind that you are the only one perfect match for yourself.Mind stays with you,your heart stays with you but the only one thing that throws you away is your feelings of surrendering yourself below the one who has no longer in love with you.In the thought that you have loved them more than loving yourself but the truth is they have succeeded in being the best match for themselves by following what brings them the pleasure but it is you who have failed.
You breath for you,you love for you,you fail for you,you succeed for you,the chances are keep on being repeated for recognising the perfect match who will never resist in destroying you but only in building you up which is you alone.You walk as you instruct your self,you eat as you prefer,you talk as you chooses and you live as you have wanted always.In order to get the perfect match look into the mirror,your match can be seen there,this is a magic of fully relying on you for the entire life,that is your only bestest therapy of drawing the perfect match by having your picture and living in the reality.
In my conclusion,the best came from the worse,the same goes to the faith in the others too.The moment you are putting someone as the drive of your happiness,remember you are no longer yourself.Before you are listing on what your perfect match should have in his or her life ask yourself whether you meet those qualities or not first, just simply because you are the perfect match that you are looking for.That you have ever dreamt of.I hope that this piece of writing will make the rest of your life as the days of your honeymoon.
Live While it Lasts,
Author,
SIVANISSWARY KARUPPANNAN
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